When I was younger I always listened to things you should do before the year ends and I always found them so funny. But now, many years later, I do understand them. If we want to make next year better we need to get rid of some things in this one. So let's go with the list!
First one would be to forgive. To yourself! For not exercising regularly, for eating too much chocolate, for things and actions you regret now, just forgive yourself! You shouldn't analyze it or overthink because you don't have anything from it. In order to forgive others for everything they did, you need to forgive yourself first. You know how they say you should enter to a new year like a diary with blank pages so you can write it with new experiences. If we want blank pages, we need to forgive ourselves and others so we can fill them with beautiful things! Don't you agree? Accept and forgive. That's the formula for growing! Get the largest paper in the house and start writing! It's so liberating.
Make a list of things you did this year! Acknowledge them and be grateful for them. It's important to keep track of things we learned and experienced. If we never do of this, we won't know what we did and what we want to work on in the next year. You should write everything down. Doesn't matter if you say it, I think the best thing is to write it down. It's different when you actually write these things because that's when you realize the power of words and actions you did.
Be grateful for everything that happened to you. Good or bad, be grateful. It shaped you into a person that you are now. I think that in general, we should all practice gratitude more. I think that's how we are going to be more aware of things that are happening to us and around us.
Don't forget that it's never too late for anything. Doesn't matter if it's last month of the year. Every day is a new beginning and nothing should stop you from progress!
Be grateful for everything that happened to you. Good or bad, be grateful. It shaped you into a person that you are now. I think that in general, we should all practice gratitude more. I think that's how we are going to be more aware of things that are happening to us and around us.
Don't forget that it's never too late for anything. Doesn't matter if it's last month of the year. Every day is a new beginning and nothing should stop you from progress!
I think it is definitely a great idea to make a list of great things you have accomplished, rather than to push yourself on what to do do the following year :)
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Not to sound cheesy, but this post has inspired me! This year has been a bit bumpy, but also really wonderful. I have many things I need to forgive myself for, a lot to be thankful for and many things to look forward to as the new year comes. Thank you, sincerely, for writing this! I actually needed to read something like this. 🖤
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Kristiana for this lovely comment! That was my goal when I was writing this. You are very welcome! I'm so happy you found this post helpful. I wish you all the best in New Year. <3
DeleteI would definitely agree with these, especially the forgiveness. And gratefulness is always a good thing. Blessings to you this holiday season and throughout the new year!
ReplyDeleteWhen I first started to read this post I thought it was going to be things that would be too hard for me to do like travel(I'm broke so), do this or that. These are things I can do and will help me grow as a person. So thanks.
ReplyDeleteYou're too cute! And yes, I really like keeping a count of blessings through the year...so good to look back on at then years' end. So good!
ReplyDeleteI feel like every day is another chance to start over. These are certainly things that people who are too hard on themselves need to do.
ReplyDeleteI guess forgiving is important if you want to move on. A list is a good thing and help to reflect on what you did and how to improve
ReplyDeleteForgive oneself is one many people need to acknowledge as it is so important to not be so hard on yourself. I think the other 2 are great two but forgiving yourself I'd say is my favorite.
ReplyDeleteHi! I'll be totally honest with you, when I first read the title of your post I expected some list of frivolities, and I am SO PLEASED to read the three things you mentioned are actually three things I want to do and that will be very beneficial to me. Thank you for this post, it is written with joy but it gathers the most serious things in life! I like what you write and the vision of life you have :)
ReplyDeleteThis is a great idea for you to reflect on how your year turned out and what you did well and what you can improve on.
ReplyDeleteI can’t get over how gorgeous these photos are, I love the colours. Forgiveness is so important, especially at this time of year.
ReplyDeleteIts so nice to read this article. I am totally agreeing with you about forgiveness. It would be a great thinking for all of us, specially in this advent season.
ReplyDeleteI like your idea of forgiveness, reflecting and being grateful. Thanks for these reminder. I would love to try them out.
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I really like you said above about forgiveness and being grateful as always. I think this is the right thing that we should do before year end.
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